I saw a post about this quite some time ago and never really looked into it so for day 30 I decided to check out my Zodiac sign and see if I tend to match it. I am not a big believer in zodiac signs so I am not sure how this is going to turn out.
I have to say that I probably agree with some of these strengths as I am a very cooperative person, maybe sometimes I can be a little too cooperative and it turns out to be a bit of a weakness. Yet I like to cooperate to ensure that things become easier and things run a lot smoother instead of things becoming complicated.
I have to say that this one is 100% me. I hate having to pick a side when there has been a fight or argument as I can always see from bother peoples point of view and tend instead like to help resolve the issue instead of standing back and choosing a side. This isn’t always a strength as it means that you get stuck as you can not always see who is in the wrong as a lot of the time you can see what has made a person do what they have done.
When I first saw the word gracious I thought it meant in a religious way and for somebody who isn’t religious I would of thought that I did not match this strength. Instead when I looked it actually meant somebody who ‘at least attempts to not hurt others’ feelings with clumsy words or thoughtless deeds’. This is something that I tend to do, I hate the thought of upsetting somebody and always thinks that if my words are going to hurt somebody then I am not going to say them at all.
I can be a very social person when I am in a crowd or I am sat next to somebody but this isn’t always the case because I don’t tend to start up conversations with people I do not know. This isn’t because I am being rude but I am doing it because I tend to get a bit anxious and paranoid around new people.
This is definitely my weakness, if somebody asks me what I want to eat or gives mea choice then I am screwed. I can never make a decision as I am always worried I will make the wrong decision or people will not agree with the decision I have made so I tend to leave it for other people to make.
I can’t think of anything worse then confrontation, I tend to over think things and get too anxious to actually confront somebody. I always find that by avoiding it I am just making life easier when actually this isn’t always the case.
Will Carry A Grudge
I am half and half on this one because I can carry a grudge but I can also easily forgive. It is hard because I tend to hold a grudge if somebody does something against somebody I care about and tend to forgive easily when somebody does something against myself.
When looking back at the strengths and weaknesses I think it shows that I fit my zodiac sign quite well and I do fit into the Libra category.
People born under the sign of Libra are peaceful, fair, and they hate being alone. Partnership is very important for them, as their mirror and someone giving them the ability to be the mirror themselves. These individuals are fascinated by balance and symmetry, they are in a constant chase for justice and equality, realizing through life that the only thing that should be truly important to themselves in their own inner core of personality. This is someone ready to do nearly anything to avoid conflict, keeping the peace whenever possible. – Quote from here!