The one thing we never want to do is fall out of love. But, when do you actually realise that you are starting to fall out of love with somebody?
Relationships are tough, they always have been and most likely always will be. We’ve all found ourselves in relationships that don’t actually fulfil us but we stick to them hoping that they will get better and become what we wished. Should your relationship really be a task that you’re trying to improve or just be natural?
You may already be in the perfect relationship that you have never had to put a lot of work in but all of sudden you’ve come to realise something isn’t right. Finding yourself having to put effort into something that used to be so natural but all of a sudden isn’t?
You Spend Less Time Together
Have you realised that you’re no longer spending a good amount of time with each other. The effort of seeing each other isn’t so much of a priority. If you are at the point of not being interested in spending time with each other, you need to question whether or not they are even worth your time. Being in a relationship means that you want to spend as much time together a possible. If this stops then obviously something is starting to drift. Before doing anything rash, see if it is just a phase and make those plans and see each other but if either of you aren’t interested then there is something wrong.
The Attraction Is Disappearing
Attraction is one of the first signs of liking somebody and the closer you get and the deeper in love you get the more attracted you become to a person. If you find yourself losing this attraction and not wanting to come into contact then there is something wrong. Sexual attraction and physical relationships plays a major role in a relationship which keeps it a healthy, loving relationship.
You’re Thinking About Them Less and Less
The cute things about relationships, you can never get them off your mind. No matter how much you try the are constantly there, whether you want them there or not. Yes, you get to a point in your relationship where you do not think about your partner as much but they are still always in the back of yourk mind. If you find yourself hardly thinking about them at all then unfortunately they are not a big priority for you. Thinking about something often and pretty much having them on your mind all the time is how people stay in love for so long.
Your Losing Respect
Respect is a big part of any relationship, especially when it comes to your love life. If you start losing respect for each other then you are going to start fight and bicker a lot more. Fighting and bickering often is not healthy is a good relationship. You may just find that it is a phase and one of you may actually have a reason to be bickering. Talk to each other, see if something is wrong. If not, then you may just find that you are actually falling out of love.